Showing posts with label Assertiveness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Assertiveness. Show all posts

Thursday, July 17, 2014

How Do Dinosaurs Go To School?



The brain loves contrast.  Contrast helps the brain pick up patterns and focus attention.  At the beginning of the school year I spend about six weeks helping my students learn the patterns/routines and expectations of our classroom.  This enhances feelings of safety.

One of my favorite teaching tools during this time is  the book How Do Dinosaurs Go to School.  There are several other similar books in this series by Jane Yolan and Mark Teague.  They are so much fun!  Through the use of contrast and humor they teach valuable social-emotional lessons.  Follow the link below to learn more about this book and others!




After reading this story with the children we make a class book titled:  How do Preschoolers Go to School

By this point, all of the children know our classroom agreements.  They look something like this...


We repeat them day after day, we sing about them, and even include movements to help us remember the agreements to keep our classroom safe.


When we make the book, the preschoolers act out what it would look like if they were NOT doing these things.  We take pictures of each scene.  There is a picture of them fighting over toys, looking away while the teacher is reading a story, running through the classroom, and screaming and yelling.  Here is an example...

 
Looking away while the teacher reads a story.
 
 
Screaming and yelling while they play at the table.
 
They have an absolute blast making this book!  It is their chance to act naughty without any consequences.  They really ham it up!
 
Once we take pictures of what NOT to do.  We go back and take pictures of what TO DO.  Once all the pictures are printed we make them into a class book.
 
The beginning of the book says...
"How do preschoolers go to school?" 
"Do they run through the classroom and crash into walls?" 
"Do they scream and yell at the top of their lungs?" 
"Do they turn their back and not look at all?"
 
Then in the very middle of the book you put a big NO!!!!! 
 
The second half of the book illustrates how preschoolers go to school safely.
"They walk through the classroom and in the halls."
"They talk quietly with voices so small."
"They look at the teacher when she shows a book."
 
...And so on until you have included all of your class agreements in the book.  I like to end the book with a photo of our entire class including teachers and something like, "My job is to keep you safe, your job is to help keep it safe.  THAT'S how Preschoolers Go To School!" 
 
 
Picture rule cards are also helpful.  These are images that you post around the classroom, school, or home to show children two positive options and one that is not an option.  You can print images off of the internet or take photos.  Conscious Discipline also has a premade pack of Shubert's Picture Rule Cards that you can purchase. 
 



As in the example above, these images show children what you want them to do.  "You may clean up your workspace by yourself."  "You may clean up your workspace with a friend."  "You may not leave a messy workspace."

When a child has trouble remembering your classroom expectations, the first consequence is to choose again.  Send the child back to the pictures for a reminder and guide them in making a different choice. 

Self-regulation is a right brain job.  The right brain needs images to help govern behavior.  The best thing about images is that they don't get tired of reminding children what to do!  :)

Until next time, I wish you well!

Thursday, February 13, 2014

Creating a School Family: Organizing Center Time

I have observed that many teacher have good intentions and want to allow children to have a choice about where they want to play and when.  Unfortunately, if it isn't managed well, free choice time can turn into chaos and the anxiety in the room goes through the roof.   

I get the opportunity to visit many classrooms when I am coaching.  I always keep my camera handy so I can snap shots of brilliance in action!  Recently, I found two new ideas for managing Center Time that I would love to share with you!  These ideas would work best with children that are preschool age and older. 


This first idea comes from a Head Start Classroom in my community.  At each center in the classroom, the teacher has posted a simple poster like the one shown above.  She added photos from school supply catalogs to help the children have a visual support along with written label for each center.  The bear cutouts give the children a visual reminder for how many children may play safely at each center.  When children arrive at the center, they hang their individualized bear on one of the spaces provided.  What a simple and easy way to add safety and predictability to your center time!

Speaking of simple, it doesn't get much simpler than this next idea!  I came across this fabulous and super super easy idea at the same Head Start, but in a different classroom.  You will flip when you see how easy it can be to kick your center management up a notch!


This teacher has a baggie with hair ties in it.  Yes, you heard that right, HAIR TIES!  When it is time for centers the teacher lays out the correct number of bands for each center.  So, if the yellow center is allowed to have four children, then she lays out four yellow bands. When the children choose their center they put the band around their wrist to help others know where they're going.  If they want to change centers they simply go over change colors and move to the center of their choice. 

The teacher spends time at the beginning of the year teaching the children which color represents each center.  She practices it with them and sets them (and her) up for success!  You could also hang some sort of colored symbol in each center to remind children of the color for each center if you choose.  What a great visual and tactile way to manage centers! It just doesn't get any easier than this!

Remember, our goal in center time is for children to be engaged in learning activities that increase social, motor, and cognitive skills, as well as language development through play.  Lack of structure at Center Time creates an atmosphere of stress for children.  When children are stressed learning will not occur.  By adding just a few little structures such as the ones shared above you can soothe the lower centers of the brain, help children feel safe and ready to learn!

Sunday, January 5, 2014

Time to Hibernate it's Snowpocalypse 2014!!!

If a foot of snow wasn't enough to make use want to hibernate then the cold temps that are settling in across the Hoosier State sure will!  Here in Indiana, we are experiencing some record snow fall along with temperatures that haven't been seen in nearly a hundred years if EVER!

Since the Hoosier State is setting weather records, some of my Hoosier Blogging Friends thought maybe we'd set our own record with a first ever Teachers Pay Teacher Snowpocalypse Dollar Sale too! 

In celebration of Snowpocalypse 2014 several of us are offering products in our stores for JUST $1.00 on Monday and Tuesday, January 6th and 7th only!

Because...
 
"There's SNOW better way to spend a day than with a $1 Sale!"
 
 
I am featuring three products that relate to the theme of HIBERNATION!  So, put on an extra layer of clothes, snuggle down in your warm blankets, and grab a cup of coffee and start shopping!

http://www.teacherspayteachers.com/Product/Brown-Bear-Helps-Manage-Behavior-by-Looking-for-Kindness-939768
 January is welcome month to teach children about what animals do in winter.  Why not teach them about kindness too with this book that is patterned after Brown Bear, Brown Bear!!!
 

Help little ones get ready for bed with this handy routine book that is great for creating a safe and predictable bedtime routine!  This book can be put in a small photo album or you can bind it yourself.  The compact size and practical use is great for Grandma's house too!

http://www.teacherspayteachers.com/Product/Bedtime-Routine-Checklist-948315

This is another great tool for the bedtime routine!  This checklist is offered in several colors that you can put in a frame or laminate and hang on the wall as a visual reminder of the bedtime routine!

Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Conscious Discipline Resources for Children with Special Needs

Today I'm sharing one of my very favorite online resources for using Conscious Discipline with children who have special needs. This brilliant website is created by the amazingly talented staff in the Miami-Dade County Public Schools of Miami, Florida.  

http://prekese.dadeschools.net/consciousdiscipline.html

You can go ahead and click the image above and go check out the website for yourself, but make sure you come back here to learn more about this amazing resource!

If you have worked with children who have special needs very long you've probably heard of the Mayer Johnson software called Boardmaker.  If not,  click the image to learn more!

http://www.mayer-johnson.com/boardmaker-software

On the Miami-Dade County website click on the "Resources" tab on the left hand side of the page then click on the Boardmaker label.   As you will see, Boardmaker is a software program that helps you support learning with images.  The Miami-Dade website provides many different Boardmaker files for you to download free of charge!  You do have to own the Boardmaker software in order to print many of these images, but it gives you a great place to start!  If you are a special needs teacher or therapist this could save you HOURS!  We want to use images to help young children govern their behavior...why reinvent the wheel!?!  :)


http://prekese.dadeschools.net/BMD/activityspecific.html
 
The board above is used during a Greeting Circle to focus on Phonological Awareness.  It includes elements of the Brain Smart Start from Conscious Discipline.  Help children connect and build relationships while they build reading skills!  :)
 
 
http://prekese.dadeschools.net/BMD/activityspecific.html
 
One of the Brain Smart Principles of Conscious Discipline is that the brain is pattern seeking.  Look how this board helps children use body movement to create a pattern.  What a great way to add some Brain Smart moves into your day!
 
 
If you have been to one of my trainings you know how successful Boo Boo Lotion has been in my work with children who have special needs.  This visual helps the child with minimal verbal ability to show you where their "boo boo" is so you can comfort them and show them  you care. 
 
http://prekese.dadeschools.net/BMD/behavioralsocial.html
 
There is a whole section of boards under the Behavioral and Social downloads.  The one above is a feelings board that gives children some a way to name their feeling and how they choose to handle their feelings.
 
http://prekese.dadeschools.net/BMD/behavioralsocial.html

 
Using a "First/Then" board really helps children stay focused on the task at hand until they reach their goal.  This comes in really handy with the Skill of Assertiveness!  It focuses everyone on what they want.
 
http://prekese.dadeschools.net/BMD/behavioralsocial.html

I love how this board gives you lots of ideas for commitments that your School Family can make throughout the year.  Adding a visual to the commitment really helps everyone better focus their intentions and brings us back to our focus when we get off track. 
 
Take some time to explore the website on your own.  There are many great resources available.  One of my other favorites is the page that has TONS of fun nursery rhyme ideas!  Take a look around and share what you find most helpful with others via Pinterest or Facebook!  They add new resources all the time!  Which board inspired you the most?