Saturday, July 13, 2013

Help for Little Ones Who Sometimes Bite


I have worked with lots of  little ones who sometimes bite to get what they want.  They just don't know what else to do!  I know how frustrating it can be for adults to work with little ones who bite, but imagine how frustrated they feel when they don't know any other way to get what they want or lack the impulse control to "use their words".

In order to help kids have the skills they need when they want something you have to practice.  While I was on my walk today this little song started churning in my head.  I decided to add some cute clipart and make it into a poster to share with you.  My assistants have always teased me about my uncanny ability to put just about anything to the tune of "Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star". 

I would encourage you to use this song during happy times when you have the opportunity to practice.  You will give the children lots of opportunities to get someone's attention by tapping them on the arm or leg and then ask for a turn.  You will also help them practice what to do if the other child says "no" when they ask for a turn.  It is important to learn that sometimes you have to wait.  This song will help you practice and you could add some simple sign language with it as you teach it to the children.  Suggested signs would be "play", "friend", "please",  and "I love you".

 
This song is sung to the tune of none other than my favorite, "Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star."  Here is the link to the download. 
 
Dr. Becky Bailey has an intense biting protocol that she shares in her Infant Toddler Trainings if you are interested in what to do with chronic biters.  You can see more about Conscious Discipline training opportunities by visiting the website: www.consciousdiscipline.com.


Friday, July 12, 2013

Indiana Blogger Meet Up Lights a Spark!

Today I met with 14 other bloggers from all over Indiana for a day of sharing and fun! We talked all things bloggy, ate Mexican, and enjoyed connecting with one another.


These women are such an inspiration.  I feel so honored to be among such amazing teachers inspiring people all over the world as they share their love for children and their love of teaching through their blogs.  I hope you'll take time to visit the other blogs in this Linky Party and see a sampling of the talent from the Hoosier State!


Wednesday, July 10, 2013

I Love You Ritual: "Row, Row, Row Your Boat"




Each week I get the pleasure of working with this delightful family in their home as they learn how to use Conscious Discipline with their little charmer.  We have been learning some new I Love You Rituals and "Row, Row, Row Your Boat" is their favorite right now!  Check out this adorable video!
 



Who can't help but smile from ear to ear when you see something that cute?!?  Cute they are, but I Love You Rituals are so much more than cute!  They are a fun and purposeful way of helping us make connections with our children through a loving relationship so that we can literally wire the child's brain for impulse control, cooperation, and willingness.  Who wouldn't want that?


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Two Day Conscious Discipline Workshop Hosted by Ignite Learning LLC

I love summer vacation!  If your summer has been like mine you have had lots of lazy days, fun with kids and without kids, as well as time to read and learn a few new things.  I have been leading a book study at our local elementary school on Dr. Becky Bailey's book "Managing Emotional Mayhem."  Each Tuesday I am joined by about 17 other educators who are interested in learning a better way of handling upset...theirs and their children's.

Managing Emotional Mayhem
 
 
Lots of great insights and questions have come out of our book study.  One conclusion that everyone is beginning to reach is that they need to know more.  They are learning how to manage emotional mayhem, but they realize that in order for it to reach maximum success it needs to be implemented within the structure of the School Family environment of Conscious Discipline. 
 
A great opportunity is being offered in Anderson, IN on July 19-20.  I am hosting two full days of training with National Presenter and Conscious Discipline Expert, Karen Hickman.  To learn more about Karen watch the video below.
 
 
Our focus this year is the "why" behind Conscious Discipline.  In this engaging and interactive workshop you will practice assertive communication, fine-tune your responses to tattling, learn how to empower victims and teach aggressors how to get their needs met appropriately.  Not only will you learn to identify factors causing aggression, but you will also learn how to eliminate power struggles.  This workshop will focus on teaching skills that help Create a Positive School Climate.  The workshop objectives are:
  •  Learn clear and assertive communication techniques so children learn their words are more powerful than their hands
  • Describe how to transform hurtful interactions into helpful communication
  • Make the shift from seeing "misbehavior" as a problem to a call for help or love
  • Describe how to use the School Family/Connected Family model as the basis of your behavior management system to help meet the social and emotional needs of all children
 
Visit my Downloads page for more information and to get registered.  Registration is only $140 and you can make payment via Paypal using the link in the sidebar.  Hope you can make it!  
   
   
  
  
 
 
 
 

Friday, June 7, 2013

Pete the Cat Helps us Keep our Cool


 
Pete is one cool cat and it's a good thing, because in preschool it is so important that we all keep our cool isn't it!?!  In fact, Pete is one of the all time favorite characters in my preschool classroom.  The rhythm and predictability that the Pete books offer are just perfect for preschool!  We read several Pete books this year and the children requested them over and over again all year long!  Most of the preschoolers had these books memorized by the end of the year.  If you haven't met Pete I highly recommend you head on over the Harper Collins website and check him out!  There are several new books available as well as free audio downloads of his most popular books!

    
 

"Pete's Four Groovy Buttons"
We shared Pete and His Four Groovy Buttons toward the end of the school year this year.  A good friend of mine gave me this amazing Pete the Cat shirt!  She took an old button up shirt and added some large colorful buttons to the front.  She attached each button to a small piece of string and then added Velcro so that they could "fall off" as we read the story.  Of course, Pete was just fine when all his buttons fell off because he found the best button of all...his belly button!  You can only imagine the fun we had with that part of the story!  Kids love belly buttons! 
 
We spent almost a month celebrating the ending of the school year by bringing back out some of the favorite books, activities, and songs from throughout the year.  A lot happens over the course of nine months and it is fun to remember all the fun we've shared together as a school family.  Over the years I have learned that it is much more helpful to bring out the favorites at the end of the year than it is to plan lots of new activities and stress myself out.  The children really enjoy this remembering.  

Along with Pete the Cat, we pulled back out The Gingerbread Baby, Three Billy Goats Gruff, and Chicka Chicka Boom Boom.  We had fun remembering all the different versions of books we read and voting for our favorites.  We also acted them out again and enjoyed some related activities.  One of the all time favorite activities for the whole school year was when I brought in my air popper and made popcorn for them.  We love to take the top off and pretend that it is a volcano, tornado, or snow storm...whatever their imagination comes up with!  If you ever want to keep a group of children busy for hours, just bring in an air popper!  LOL! 
 
 
With all the paperwork to complete, case conferences to hold, assessments to give, boxes to pack, and planning to do I find it very challenging to keep my cool as the school year draws to a close. There is so much emotion and energy wrapped up in the last few weeks of school that I have to keep close tabs on my state as I know how much of an impact it has on the state of the children in my care.  Remembering and celebrating help us keep our energy focused on a happy ending and new beginnings while being conscious of what's happening within us!  Have you ever heard yourself saying "man these kids are wild" as the school year draws to a close?  Instead of just writing off all that emotion as "wild and crazy kids" let's recognize the emotion and be open to helping the students and ourselves manage it instead of letting it manage us!
 
Since this year was my last in the classroom, I wanted to do something helpful for the new teacher that would take my place.  I worked with the preschoolers to create this fun bulletin board to leave behind in the classroom to welcome the new teacher and her class.  My pre-k class helped me complete a list of things that the incoming preschoolers should know about being in preschool.  It looked something like this...
 
     
 
Each child had an opportunity to add a couple of ideas to the list.  Once the discussion was complete, the children returned to their seat and illustrated their tips that completed this sentence:  "Be a Cool Cat in Preschool by ____".
 
 
 
 
A giant Pete accompanied the papers on the bulletin board and of course Pete is keeping his cool by being a S.T.A.R. (Smile, Take a deep breath, And, Relax) just like we have practiced alllllllllll  year long!  When the world doesn't go Pete's way does Pete cry?  Goodness no, he keeps walking along and singing his song as one well regulated kitty.  Isn't that our goal as educators and parents?  We want to help our children to find a place within themselves where they can say, "It's all good."
 
 
Since Pete was such a hit in our classroom we wanted to give the children something to help them remember the school year.  We purchased Pete the Cat books (buy one get one free book fair) and added a little book mark to help the Shining Stars remember the school year.
 
    
 
It is our ritual to Wish Well friends and family members who are missing, sick, or hurting in some way.  On the side of the shoe we wrote "We wish shoe well!"  Our hope is that our Shining Stars will always remember the time we shared with one another know they have a special place in our hearts.  On the last day of school we participated in our Safekeeper Ritual one last time and then gave each child their special gift before going home. 
 
So, in the words of our friend Pete the Cat, "No matter what you step in, keep walking along and singing your song...because it's all good.  I love my red shoes, I love my red shoes, I love my red shoes..."